by Donna McBride, City of Casa Grande Councilwoman
Photos by Donna McBride
The “A picture is worth a thousand words” phrase comes from the early 1920s when magazines were trying to make advertising more creative. Some say pictures have a greater impact than words because they stay in our memories longer. Maybe, maybe not.
Camera phones have created instant opportunities to grab every sentimental, funny, embarrassing and emotional image of ourselves (and others) at a seconds’ notice. Then we can transfer it the same minute to social media to share with the world.
But what about the seconds before or after that picture is taken? What story did we lose?
I am guilty of being attached to my phone. We all are. Think about it. You’re at an event, a vacation or just enjoying some beautiful views. You want to get some good shots. Phone in hand — ready. Maybe we should put down the phone and experience moments directly.
When you are not focused on that perfect shot, you are more engaged in the moment, letting it create a deeper connection with what is really happening around you.
We need to experience emotional moments directly without the lens of a camera, absorbing sights, sounds and feelings without the distraction of trying to “document” it.
The camera is not the only way to remember special moments for us. Constantly photographing special moments can actually take us out of the experience. Sure, we can look back at the photos, but did we really appreciate the moment for what it really presented to us?
Social connections are becoming a lost treasure. Let’s put down our phones and connect with others. Being mindful in the moment allows us to experience what is going on around us. Don’t get me wrong, I love taking pictures and consider myself an amateur photographer. But I also know there have been times when I’ve missed out of some gorgeous memories because they were not in that little screen on my phone.
Find your balance. If someone else is photographing, let them capture your special moments. Only you can create those memories in your mind and heart.
